Men are frustrated with women because they never want sex.
Women are frustrated with men because they always want sex.
Women blame men that they don't know how to love.
Men blame women that they only talk about love but don't want to make it.
Whether you are a man or a woman, reading this article can change your
life - finally, you will be able to get rid of your frustrations about the
opposite gender.
The reason humans want sex is due to the hormone testosterone, which is
predominantly male hormone. A normal male's body produces 20 times more of
this hormone than a female's.
In other words, a male feels the same way after one day without sex as a
female after 20 days without sex. A male that has not had sex in 20 days
feels the same way as a female after more than a year without sex.
Knowing this simple difference, you can already understand the pain of the
opposite gender. It's NOT their fault: they are made this way!
It's in our genes! This is the reason why men are men and women are women.
Men and women are DIFFERENT.
Not better or worse, just different.
A man can father a child every time he has sex, and a woman can only
mother a child every two years or so. This means, a woman HAS TO be picky
about who she allows to have sex with her.
For generations women were paying too high a price for making a wrong
choice. Women that have chosen men with bad genes had a weaker offspring
and their children struggled to survive. Women that have chosen men with
good genes had a stronger offspring and their children survived
disproportionably. Those children were carrying their picky mother's genes
and this is why those female genes were passed to us.
On the other hand, men never had adverse consequences of making a wrong
choice. The more children they produced, the higher was their chance to
pass their genes to future generations, as some of them would certainly
survive. While men were determined to seek better genes too, they had to
grab all chances to procreate coming their way to ensure their genes would
be passed forward. The men that ONLY stuck with one woman (even a high
quality woman) were losing genetically to the men that used all of their
opportunities and had many more children that survived. Those children
were carrying their father's promiscuous genes, and this is why those male
genes were passed to us.
By Nature men are made to seek as much sex as they can get, so they can
spread their seed wider.
By Nature women are made to seek as many admirers as they can get, so they
can make a better choice and get the best seed.
Men seek quantity - women seek quality.
This is why men seek sex and women seek love.
Love is the proof that a woman needs to have some assurance that the man
will stick around and help her with the upbringing of the offspring. For a
woman, sex is the culmination of her emotional commitment to a man.
For a man, sex is a physical act that eases the testosterone pressure he
experiences constantly. Only after this tension has gone, can a man feel
love towards a woman. This is why it often happens that men disappear
after they got what they wanted: it wasn't love; it was the testosterone
pressure. Sex for men is the reality check of their passion.
This is why having sex early in the relationship is hazardous for
women: the man has not had the time to develop any romantic feelings for
her. He needs time to develop those feelings, and the only way to do it is
through keeping the sexual tension going for as long as practicable. Sex
must be attainable, nearly possible - but not quite.
When the sexual tension is at its peak, its release is mind-blowing - and
once is never enough, which lays a proper foundation for a future
relationship - and love.
Men fall in love through sex; women fall in sex through love.
All of this happens on the unconscious level - we do NOT realize what's
going on.
But the reason why you are here today and alive is because each and every
of your ancestors, men and women, acted true to their instincts and
managed to attract at least one sexual partner and produce an offspring.
So, there is no need to be bitter about men wanting sex and women wanting
love. Those two are the necessary pieces of the puzzle called Survival Of
The Species.
And you'll be better off understanding what the other gender is going
through and giving them exactly what they want: mind-blowing sex or
Women are frustrated with men because they always want sex.
Women blame men that they don't know how to love.
Men blame women that they only talk about love but don't want to make it.
Whether you are a man or a woman, reading this article can change your
life - finally, you will be able to get rid of your frustrations about the
opposite gender.
The reason humans want sex is due to the hormone testosterone, which is
predominantly male hormone. A normal male's body produces 20 times more of
this hormone than a female's.
In other words, a male feels the same way after one day without sex as a
female after 20 days without sex. A male that has not had sex in 20 days
feels the same way as a female after more than a year without sex.
Knowing this simple difference, you can already understand the pain of the
opposite gender. It's NOT their fault: they are made this way!
It's in our genes! This is the reason why men are men and women are women.
Men and women are DIFFERENT.
Not better or worse, just different.
A man can father a child every time he has sex, and a woman can only
mother a child every two years or so. This means, a woman HAS TO be picky
about who she allows to have sex with her.
For generations women were paying too high a price for making a wrong
choice. Women that have chosen men with bad genes had a weaker offspring
and their children struggled to survive. Women that have chosen men with
good genes had a stronger offspring and their children survived
disproportionably. Those children were carrying their picky mother's genes
and this is why those female genes were passed to us.
On the other hand, men never had adverse consequences of making a wrong
choice. The more children they produced, the higher was their chance to
pass their genes to future generations, as some of them would certainly
survive. While men were determined to seek better genes too, they had to
grab all chances to procreate coming their way to ensure their genes would
be passed forward. The men that ONLY stuck with one woman (even a high
quality woman) were losing genetically to the men that used all of their
opportunities and had many more children that survived. Those children
were carrying their father's promiscuous genes, and this is why those male
genes were passed to us.
By Nature men are made to seek as much sex as they can get, so they can
spread their seed wider.
By Nature women are made to seek as many admirers as they can get, so they
can make a better choice and get the best seed.
Men seek quantity - women seek quality.
This is why men seek sex and women seek love.
Love is the proof that a woman needs to have some assurance that the man
will stick around and help her with the upbringing of the offspring. For a
woman, sex is the culmination of her emotional commitment to a man.
For a man, sex is a physical act that eases the testosterone pressure he
experiences constantly. Only after this tension has gone, can a man feel
love towards a woman. This is why it often happens that men disappear
after they got what they wanted: it wasn't love; it was the testosterone
pressure. Sex for men is the reality check of their passion.
This is why having sex early in the relationship is hazardous for
women: the man has not had the time to develop any romantic feelings for
her. He needs time to develop those feelings, and the only way to do it is
through keeping the sexual tension going for as long as practicable. Sex
must be attainable, nearly possible - but not quite.
When the sexual tension is at its peak, its release is mind-blowing - and
once is never enough, which lays a proper foundation for a future
relationship - and love.
Men fall in love through sex; women fall in sex through love.
All of this happens on the unconscious level - we do NOT realize what's
going on.
But the reason why you are here today and alive is because each and every
of your ancestors, men and women, acted true to their instincts and
managed to attract at least one sexual partner and produce an offspring.
So, there is no need to be bitter about men wanting sex and women wanting
love. Those two are the necessary pieces of the puzzle called Survival Of
The Species.
And you'll be better off understanding what the other gender is going
through and giving them exactly what they want: mind-blowing sex or
exhilarating love.
Cheers for now.
Ty.
