Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Difference between men and women about SEX

Men are frustrated with women because they never want sex.
 Women are frustrated with men because they always want sex.
 Women blame men that they don't know how to love.
 Men blame women that they only talk about love but don't want to make it.

 Whether you are a man or a woman, reading this article can change your
 life - finally, you will be able to get rid of your frustrations about the
 opposite gender.

 The reason humans want sex is due to the hormone testosterone, which is
 predominantly male hormone. A normal male's body produces 20 times more of
 this hormone than a female's.

 In other words, a male feels the same way after one day without sex as a
 female after 20 days without sex. A male that has not had sex in 20 days
 feels the same way as a female after more than a year without sex.

 Knowing this simple difference, you can already understand the pain of the
 opposite gender. It's NOT their fault: they are made this way!
 It's in our genes! This is the reason why men are men and women are women.

 Men and women are DIFFERENT.
 Not better or worse, just different.

 A man can father a child every time he has sex, and a woman can only
 mother a child every two years or so. This means, a woman HAS TO be picky
 about who she allows to have sex with her.

 For generations women were paying too high a price for making a wrong
 choice. Women that have chosen men with bad genes had a weaker offspring
 and their children struggled to survive. Women that have chosen men with
 good genes had a stronger offspring and their children survived
 disproportionably. Those children were carrying their picky mother's genes
 and this is why those female genes were passed to us.

 On the other hand, men never had adverse consequences of making a wrong
 choice. The more children they produced, the higher was their chance to
 pass their genes to future generations, as some of them would certainly
 survive. While men were determined to seek better genes too, they had to
 grab all chances to procreate coming their way to ensure their genes would
 be passed forward. The men that ONLY stuck with one woman (even a high
 quality woman) were losing genetically to the men that used all of their
 opportunities and had many more children that survived. Those children
 were carrying their father's promiscuous genes, and this is why those male
 genes were passed to us.

 By Nature men are made to seek as much sex as they can get, so they can
 spread their seed wider.

 By Nature women are made to seek as many admirers as they can get, so they
 can make a better choice and get the best seed.

 Men seek quantity - women seek quality.

 This is why men seek sex and women seek love.

 Love is the proof that a woman needs to have some assurance that the man
 will stick around and help her with the upbringing of the offspring. For a
 woman, sex is the culmination of her emotional commitment to a man.

 For a man, sex is a physical act that eases the testosterone pressure he
 experiences constantly. Only after this tension has gone, can a man feel
 love towards a woman. This is why it often happens that men disappear
 after they got what they wanted: it wasn't love; it was the testosterone
 pressure. Sex for men is the reality check of their passion.

 This is why having sex early in the relationship is hazardous for
 women: the man has not had the time to develop any romantic feelings for
 her. He needs time to develop those feelings, and the only way to do it is
 through keeping the sexual tension going for as long as practicable. Sex
 must be attainable, nearly possible - but not quite.
 When the sexual tension is at its peak, its release is mind-blowing - and
 once is never enough, which lays a proper foundation for a future
 relationship - and love.

 Men fall in love through sex; women fall in sex through love.

 All of this happens on the unconscious level - we do NOT realize what's
 going on.

 But the reason why you are here today and alive is because each and every
 of your ancestors, men and women, acted true to their instincts and
 managed to attract at least one sexual partner and produce an offspring.

 So, there is no need to be bitter about men wanting sex and women wanting
 love. Those two are the necessary pieces of the puzzle called Survival Of
 The Species.

 And you'll be better off understanding what the other gender is going
 through and giving them exactly what they want: mind-blowing sex or
 exhilarating love.

Cheers for now.
Ty.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Secrets Guys Keep From Your Their Partners

It is often preached that as a loving couple in a relationship you should never keep any secrets. Both parties should tell all and bare all. . . But the question is, in reality, is that possible? I have been through this with my partner and she is adamant that we should bare all and read each other like open books. But I know for a fact that there are some things that I wish to keep to myself. Like the fact that once in a while I will download some porn and watch while she is out with the girls or whatever. Lately it has suddenly become very important for her to know every single thing about me. . . I have tried my best to open up but there are the dark spots where no light is ever allowed to shine. And I think that I am not the only guy that feels this way. There are some things that girls are just not allowed to know. And I find that the only reason we hide this stuff from them is simply because we know she will throw a fit about how a jerk you are for checking out chicks while you are out together on a date. Or, how little love you have for her because you sometimes fantasize about doing two chicks at once while you two are making love. . . The only time that a guy can comfortably tell their partner about those dark hidden spots is if the outcome of the conversation doesn't leave you bruised from being kicked in the nuts. And you gotta admit, those are rare. So here is a list of some things that I have not been able to bare for my beloved. You can comment and add some things that you will never divulge.

1. I will never tell her that I sometimes look at and even admire some chick in the mall. Even though I may look, I never touch or do more than just day hi. In my previous bachelor days I would chat up a girl I had just met at the store and we would end up going on a date within 3 days. . . that often led to more than just a kiss goodnight. But that's for another post. Men admire beautiful women, they always have and always will and I haven't met one that wont look at a hot girl with awe. But this is not something she wants to hear now is it?


2. I will never divulge details about my past relationships. I just feel weird thinking about telling her how I used to go down on other women. But they never stop asking. This is because they are trying to measure up against you past flings and wondering if they give it to you better. Feeding this insecurity by telling her the juicy details will only lead to her feeling more insecure wondering what else with the other ones you haven't told her about yet. I just keep it very brief and shrug off the 1001 questions. There is a book we went through together, it helped me get to know her much better even though I was coy around some of the questions I think it gave her some level of peace. :) Her peace = my peace :)

3. I will never tell her that I sometimes fantasize about other women when we are making love. I guess this goes both ways too. . . I don't think I will like her telling me she is fantasizing about other men when we are making love, but hey, somehow I get asked that question!! Truth is, getting him up for the second time that night after a very long day or a long week is sometimes a little of a challenge. A little extra mental stimulation is required and Jack down stands attention for some fun!

4. I will never tell her that some of things I do around the house and some of the things I do to accommodate her (shopping) are driven by the prospect of having sex with her later. Its a fact, women will generally have sex with you when they are feeling good. If doing the dishes tonight means she can relax and feel good then it means there is much greater chance of us having sex later on. This she does not need to know, she can continue assuming that I am being sweet.

5. I will never tell her how annoying it is to be asked whether she looks fat in that dress. It comes back to the point above. Make her feel good about her dress and her weight and you greatly increase your chances of getting laid after that dinner party you are going to.


There are my five points for now. What secrets do you keep from her?


While on the subject though, here is a book designed to help you two get to know each other better. It is full of questions that you and your partner will take turns asking each other in the never ending journey of getting to know each other. I thoroughly recommend it. Its called 1000 Questions for couples by Michael Webb. Get a copy for yourself. Surprise her with it, trust me, she will love you for it.




Cheers for now.
Ty



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Friday, August 20, 2010

How To Build Muscle Fast by Spending Less Time In The Gym


The following is an article by a fellow I hold high esteem for because of his amazing program that has helped me gain muscle mass that I have always wanted. I am all for building muscle mass fast with as little effort possible because life was not meant to be spent in the gym. . . there are much better things to do. . . like chatting up that babe down the street. How better to do that than with a nice, built body! 

By Jason Ferruggia
I’ll never forget my first encounter with “Big Joe.” I had just gotten my driver’s license about a week before, so I was 17 at the time. Up until my 17th birthday, I had been training at our crappy high-school weight room and was counting the days until I could drive myself to the real gym about 15 minutes down the road. I had been training for a few years at that point and was really starting to get obsessed and read everything I could about how to build muscle fast. Of course, I had been doing everything wrong up until that point, but I didn’t know any better. I was convinced that when I was finally able to join Main Street Gym, I would start to grow like a weed.

During my second week there, I saw Big Joe for the first time. I was about halfway through my workout when he walked in. He was massive from neck to calves with a thick goatee, long sideburns, and a mop of curly brown hair. Big Joe stood about 6’4” and had to have weighed close to 300 pounds. At the time, he was in his late 30’s or early 40’s and walked with a slight hitch—I would later find out that it was from an old football injury—but he continued to squat and deadlift on a regular basis.

He was doing standing military presses that day and throwing around 275 like the bar was empty. I couldn’t help but stare as he hoisted the weights up with ease. After every set I did, I would walk to the water fountain just to get a closer look at one of the most jacked guys I had ever seen in person.

Eventually, we crossed paths and he nodded. That was it.

All the gym vets seemed to know him and every few minutes I heard one of them acknowledging his presence.

“What’s up, Big Joe?”

“Big Joe, what’s happening, my man?”

I had to move to another section of the gym to complete the rest of my workout, but I figured I would see Big Joe again when I was done. I was wrong. When I finished my workout, I looked around the gym and Big Joe was gone.

It was about two weeks before I saw Big Joe again. He came in the door right behind me one night and thanked me when I held the door for him. We both went about our business and started our workouts. He was doing bent-over barbell rows that night and had worked up to 405 for a few sets of six.

About halfway through my workout, I had to run to the locker room to get my straps out of my gym bag. When I returned Big Joe, was gone again.

Over time, I started to see Big Joe more and more and began to notice a trend- he was in and out of the gym before most guys were even halfway done with their workouts. He was so much bigger and stronger than everyone else that I figured there had to be something to what he was doing.

Finally, I worked up the courage one day to go up to Big Joe and ask him about his short workouts. I wanted to learn more about how to build muscle fast and I just knew Big Joe was the one to help me.

“Uh, excuse me,” I said.

“What’s up, big man?” Big Joe replied.

“I just wanted to ask you a few questions about training. I notice that your workouts are way shorter than anyone else’s in this entire gym, yet you are bigger and stronger than everyone,” I said.

“Finally caught on there, huh, diesel? That’s the secret right there. If you keep your workouts short, you never overtrain, you recover faster, and you constantly make progress,” Big Joe explained. “Your testosterone output peaks about a half hour into your workout and is completely shot within 45 minutes. So get in and get out in 45 minutes or less and you will get huge. That right there is one of the most important things I can ever teach you about how to build muscle fast.”

From that day on I have kept all my workouts short and have always done so with all of my clients. The results have been nothing short of spectacular. There is no reason to spend your life in the gym. Hit it hard and get out. And get ready for guys to start stepping aside when they see you coming.



Jason Ferruggia is a world famous fitness expert who is renowned for his ability to help people build muscle as fast as humanly possible. He is the head training adviser for Men’s Fitness Magazine where he also has his own monthly column dedicated to muscle building. For more How to Build Muscle Fast tips, check out MuscleGainingSecrets.com

Monday, August 16, 2010

To BlackBerry or not to BlackBerry? That is the question.


I have been thinking about getting myself a BlackBerry Bold2 for about 3 months now but haven't really come down with a set of wonderfully fantastic reasons why I should spend so much money on a phone when I already have one. The BlackBerry has wonderful features and all and most Smartphones have a decent subset of those features. The thing is the money side. . . The only options I have at the moment are taking out a contract subscription with the mobile providers and where I live the prepaid option is much more economic. Further, this is something I have always felt is a huge rip-off especially if they place cap restrictions on some services. So, the one thing about this deal that tugs at the hem of my pants is that it gives me unlimited data and internet! But it charges extra for the calls and texts I send. The cheapest contract option runs for 24 months and the monthly charge is approx US$72 and I am stuck with wondering whether it actually makes sense to pay $72 for 24 months (total of $1728) just to get free mobile internet while my calls and texts are extra versus being prepaid like I am now. Perhaps If I was in a place where the mobile rates competitiveness was meaningful, I bet I could find a better deal than this. Anyway, another thing I keep envying about these Smartphones is the tonnes of apps available out there for download. I mean everyone is developing apps these days, I read sometime last year of a 9 year old who developed an iPhone app for his little 4 year old sister to use on their iPhone and I was like 'What the heck!' So I set out on a quest to get myself a Smartphone so I can develop my own apps for personal use and perhaps even for sale to the Smartphone community at large. I don't have a Smartphone, yet and I think once I decide to get this Bold2 that will be the beginning for me. I already have resources on how to develop apps for iPhone, I just need to get the same for my 'soon to be' new BlackBerry Bold2. Perhaps you too may be looking to develop your own iPhone apps, here are some developer tools on how:

==> To make iPhone apps How To Create iPhone Apps With No Programming Experience and
==>  How to Make An iPhone App.

The resources are very helpful and I am sure you will be cruisin on your very own apps soon that you can even end up selling!! Do share and I most definitely will. Have loads of fun!

Cheers for now
Ty

Saturday, August 14, 2010

Misunderstood. . .?

An angry/frustrated commenter blasted my post rather rudely saying that they didn't understand what my blog was trying to achieve and that he wanted to see guy stuff like hot chicks kissing each other half naked on a beach with a dreamy sunset behind them. 'Your blog is about guy stuff right?' he asked. Well, yes, but there are enough sites and blogs out there with smut and other such related content and galleries. I am here to offer more than pretty pictures of naked girls, I want to offer advice on topics that affect us guys, give guys something worthwhile to read that will eventually uplift your lives while at the same time narrating my adventures and experiences. I am after-all a guy in his late 20s and the same stuff that affect me will, more probable than not, affect another 20 something year old guy out there going through or wondering the same thing.

I may occasionally drop a nice picture of a really hot girl, only because I am only human, but like I said, there are enough sites out there dedicated to uploading gigs of naked chicks, so yah, lets get a taste of something fresh then shall we.

Cheers for now.
Ty

Friday, August 13, 2010

The sweet little monster

Here is an interesting finding about sugar for those out there that dont know. . . The sweet things we put in our mouths and hand to our younger generations can actually be causing serious harm to our bodies. I have a colleague who recently told me that he was twice the size he is today about 18 months ago. He got diagnosed with a very mild form of diabetes and immediately stopped taking sugar and sugar products. He went on those 'coke light' diets, eating everything artificially sweetened or naturally so and I am astounded that he halved his weight down to 83kg in just 18 months by simply avoiding sugar. No exercise, no other special diet modifications!! Makes me wonder how unhealthy I am right now and what potential I have for a better me. And what I do know is that you are at your best sexually when you are at your best physically. Just giving y'all some advice and something to think about before you super-size your next fast food meal with another half a litre of some sugar filled soft drink!

Cheers for now.
Ty

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Slingshot Ride Orgasm

Slingshot Ride Orgasm
I was online a few minutes ago and came across this funny clip of girl totally getting off while riding the Slingshot! Now this is where women have superior powers over guys. I mean she just totally had an orgasm while at the fair or amusement park or whatever. No tell-tail erections for the whole world to see. . . No mess to clean up afterward. . . Now is that unfair or what! Anyway, for me, it makes me even the more curious about them, trying to understand how women operate, how they think, what makes them tick. . . I think this will be one of my life long quests or until I get tired. lol

Enjoy the vid here

Cheers for now,
Ty